Men perceive us as having low self-confidence. A discussion of 4 behaviors (I guess more prevalent among women) that men perceive as "low self-confidence."
1. Being overly modest (not listing your accomplishments, or claiming them)
2. Not asking (specifically, for promotions - but also to be put on specific projects, work with specific partner, etc.)
3. Blending in (avoiding attn, avoiding CEO in elevator)
4. Remaining silent (not giving your 2 cents during a meeting)